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Ok, parts of your story are similar to ours...4 kids, want to travel to see sights and visit family which was scattered along the east coast. Our reasoning was a bit different. (Wifey does NOT do well in hotels once we had kids. Even when we had just one, it was apparent that the only way we were ever going to go anywhere was if we had ALL of our stuff with us all the time. It just drove her nuts fearing we'd leave some of the kids clothes, or favorite toy behind. So shortly after child #2, we began thinking about alternatives.)
Anyway, I'll also tell you to be careful as you read on, lest you follow in our footsteps!
๐ We, too, have a Honda Odyssey and originally we were looking at pop-ups, then small hybrid TT, to tow with the Odyssey. It quickly became apparent that there was no "Honda towable" solution that would work for us. So then I thought about picking up an E-350 van (this was back in 2002ish) pulling a larger TT. But the cost of a newer E-350 van and a new TT put us in the price range of Class C motorhomes. So, we started looking at those. Had just about settled on one, but then realized there was not an E-450 based C that could carry the six of us the way we wanted to travel AND be under the manufacturer's weight limits for the vehicle. As an engineer, that thought bothered me, so we started looking at other alternatives, including a Class A. If you haven't already looked at my signature, you'll see that THAT is the solution we arrived upon. We bought it new in 2004 and still have it and I expect we'll be using it for at least another 3-5 years, at which point I hope to retire and possibly get a 20 year old Prevost. But that's a different topic!
๐ SO...we started looking at things we could tow with our Honda, and we ended up buying something that TOWS our Honda. Yes, we were fortunate that we could justify the extra cost. I won't go into that now, but suffice it to say I think it was worth every penny. I would expect our kids will be able to use it when I get my Prevost! LOL
What we liked BEST about our motorhome floorplan was it's dual sofa layout. At the time we purchased our motorhome, our oldest was 7 and our youngest had just turned 1. The dual sofa floorplan gave them plenty of sleeping options as well as plenty of places to sit while travelling (we have 12 belted positions in our motorhome) as well as room for us to watch a family movie on rainy days. It's been a GREAT floorplan over the years and I still have yet to find a floorplan that I think would work better for us. I do not like the "bunk" Class A floorplans because invariably the kids bunks are a paper-thin wall away from the "adult" bedroom. Too close for our comfort. In our rig, all of the kids are asleep up front, and we have a decent space between them and our bedroom for some privacy. (Yes, you can have some semblance of privacy in a motorhome! LOL)
The class A also had much larger capacity holding tanks and much more storage inside and outside. With a family of 6, you quickly realize things like finding a place to store at least 18 pairs of shoes without tripping over them can be interesting. (Sounds like a lot, but 6 people, and each has at least 3 pairs: dress shoes, sneakers, hiking boots. Oh, wait, plus water shoes...make that 24 pairs! LOL) Anyway, our rig has closet and drawer storage where the bunk models have bunks. We figured, and for our kids anyway, that dedicated living space was more important than dedicated sleeping space. That has worked really well. I know in some families that might not be the case...but our kids like each other! LOL
We have used our rig for day trips and even, when the kids were smaller, for trips to the mall. I was gaining experience driving the rig, and it gave us a place to retreat to when the kids needed a rest.
A couple more thoughts...what year Odyssey do you have? Per Honda, the last year that could be towed four-wheels down is 2004. Anything newer than that and you'd have to use a dolly, or so says Honda. I've heard of people flat-towing 2005+ models, but they're taking a bit of a chance doing so.
So, anyway, in a nutshell, IF you're going to entertain the idea of a Class C, you probably should look at Class A's, too. IF I was going to do ANYTHING different, I think I might be tempted to purchase a 3-5 year old higher-end rig than a new middle-of-the-road rig. But when we were buying, slides were just beginning to become standard, and most of the 3-5 year old rigs available didn't have slides, something we felt we needed with 6 people on board. As I said, upon retiring, I will strongly think about picking a 20+ year old rig that had an original price tag near the million dollar mark. But as a complete newbie, as I was when we bought our rig, I would NOT recommend that path.
Anyway, good luck as you start figuring out what will work best for you. You have some time to ponder and search, and that is a good thing. We spent about 3 years from our first visit to an RV show to purchasing our Class A. But that time was well spent. We avoided buying the wrong RV, which can be rather costly especially if you buy new. Do your research BEFORE you buy.
~Rick
2005 Georgie Boy Cruise Master 3625 DS on a Workhorse W-22
Rick, Gail, 1 girl (27-Angel since 2008), 1 girl (22), 2 boys (23 & 20).
2001 Honda Odyssey, Demco Aluminator tow bar & tow plate, SMI Silent Partner brake controller.